I ran across these quotes today, and I adore them all:
"Style is not a function of how rich you are, or even who you are. Style is a habit of mind that puts quality before quantity, noble struggle before mere achievement, honor before opulence. It's what you are. It's your essential self."
-John Vernou Bouvier III
"A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman, but loose enough to prove you're a lady".
-Edith Head